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Guest post for UBERMEN from iManscape.com
Self-confidence is something a lot of us struggle with. Even some of the guys you look at and think they wouldn’t have any problems in the confidence area do. It’s human nature to sometimes judge ourselves and not always feel great and that’s ok.
Fortunately, we live in a day where we have access to pretty much everything. There are many ways to boost your self-confidence and we’re going to talk about some of them now.
Your Strongest Core Value
Let me prerequisite this article by saying the most important thing you can do is learn to be comfortable with yourself. Do not compare yourself to anyone else and learn to focus on your strengths and put effort into those strengths.
You may have heard of the 80/20 rule. Basically, 20% of your strengths will result in 80% of the great things in your life. This rule is often applied to work, success, and many other things but it holds true. The key here is to focus on the smaller 20% of your strengths and work on those.
By doing this you’ll gain a lot of self-confidence and see positive results in your life. You’ll be much happier not spending effort in the 80% of things that won’t change much.
It’s the Little Things
Feeling better in your own skin is mostly a mindset. Learning to not stress over things you can’t change and being happy with what you’ve got. That being said there are things you can do to boost your confidence and love yourself.
We at iManscape believe manscaping is a strong confidence booster. The real definition of manscaping is “removing body hair for cosmetic effect”. If you shave back hair you’re already a member of the manscaping community and you might not have even known it.
Most of you likely associate manscaping with shaving below the belt and trust us, there’s a lot of benefit to gain from a little manscaping. Just make sure to use a good manscaping trimmer and do a little research first.
Being top notch in all areas of hygiene strongly help you feel more confident. If you think your daily shower is enough, as most men do, I highly recommend looking into other areas such as taking care of your nails, exfoliation, and foot care.
Taking the extra time to take of yourself will really go a long way.
Other Areas to Focus On
There are many other ways to build your confidence. One of the ones I really like is setting daily goals. They’re just small goals to get tasks complete but doing them and checking them off every day gives a since of accomplishment and knowing you’re getting things done.
Another important aspect to focus on is your diet. I know that almost sounds cliché now but there’s a lot of truth to it. Your diet plays a big role in your daily mood and emotional balance. Eating a balanced diet will help you stay healthy, in shape, and resulting in more confidence.
Before You Go!
Hopefully, this article shed a little light on self-confidence and learning to live a positive life. It’s all the little things that add up to make a big change. Take baby steps and eventually, you’ve climbed a mountain.